Boundaries and Identity III:
Cultivating Clairvoyance
as a Spiritual Practice

 
 
Self Evaluation and Discussion Following a Reading
 
  Please answer each question.  Then, discuss each question, one at a time, with your partner(s).  I suggest you also review these questions for yourself in a couple of days.  You will probably have new and deeper insights.  
     
1. What is the most important thing your partner(s) shared with you during your reading?
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Did you ever feel like you might have accidentally crossed your partner’s boundaries during the reading?
Did you ever feel like your boundaries were accidentally crossed?
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3.
Ask your partner(s) for feedback on how you ran your boundaries and they experienced your energy.
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4.
Ask your partner(s) how they felt and experienced the way in which you shared your perceptions.
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5.
Did you ever find yourself so lit up you had to drop out of the reading and clear pictures?  If so, what was the moment that triggered that?
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6. Do you feel like you each of you had, and understood, your partner’s level of permission?  Did it seem to change during the reading?
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7. Discuss what you learned about yourself, and/or your own process, while giving your partner(s) this reading.  Examples:  that you were perceiving, more or less than usual,  holding or loosing your grounding, going unconscious, holding or loosing crown color, etc and why.
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8. What do you find to be your most natural way of perceiving? Seeing, feeling, knowing, etc? Please explain.
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9. Double check, and get feedback from your partner (s), whether you’ve separated from each other, and each other’s guides and beings.  Check for cords, energy, programming, guides, contracts...
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© 2009, John Friedlander and Gloria Hemsher
2009, Self Evaluation MN